[fix](join) runtime filter shared from other instance wasn't be published

[mrhhsg]

Proposed changes

Issue Number: close #xxx

Problem summary

Describe your changes.

Checklist(Required)

1. Does it affect the original behavior:
   • Yes
   • No
   • I don't know
2. Has unit tests been added:
   • Yes
   • No
   • No Need
3. Has document been added or modified:
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4. Does it need to update dependencies:
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   • No
5. Are there any changes that cannot be rolled back:
   • Yes (If Yes, please explain WHY)
   • No

Further comments

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[hello-stephen]

TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 34.67 seconds
load time: 427 seconds
storage size: 17123343226 Bytes
https://doris-community-test-1308700295.cos.ap-hongkong.myqcloud.com/tmp/20221201041740_clickbench_pr_55871.html

[yiguolei]

LGTM