[improvement](profile) add detail memory counter for exec nodes

[jacktengg]

Proposed changes

Issue Number: close #xxx

Problem summary

Add memory usage detail counters, e.g.:
scan node:

VNewOlapScanNode(ods_e3_order_goods_di) (id=0):(Active: 710.812ms, non-child: 4.08%)
              MemoryUsage:
             - FreeBlocks: 814.77 MB
             - QueuedBlocks: 813.66 MB

hash join node:

      VHASH_JOIN_NODE (id=2):(Active: 6s450ms, non-child: 32.27%)
        MemoryUsage:                                                                                                           
           - BuildBlocks: 433.54 MB
           - BuildKeyArena: 0
           - HashTable: 8.00 MB
           - ProbeKeyArena: 0

agg node:

    VAGGREGATION_NODE (id=1):(Active: 917.409ms, non-child: 97.79%)  
      MemoryUsage:
         - HashTable: 168.00 B
         - SerializeKeyArena: 1.55 MB          

sort node:

    VSORT_NODE (id=7):(Active: 30s585ms, non-child: 44.83%) 
       - TOP-N: false
       - MemoryOnlyTrackAllocNoConsiderFree: 22.56 GB
       ... ...
      MemoryUsage:
         - SortBlocks: 10.36 GB

analytic node:

  VANALYTIC_EVAL_NODE (id=8):(Active: 13s362ms, non-child: 0.00%)
     - EvaluationTime: 13.954ms
     - MemoryOnlyTrackAllocNoConsiderFree: 84.94 GB
    ... ...
    MemoryUsage:                                                                 
       - Blocks: 11.75 MB

Checklist(Required)

1. Does it affect the original behavior:
   • Yes
   • No
   • I don't know
2. Has unit tests been added:
   • Yes
   • No
   • No Need
3. Has document been added or modified:
   • Yes
   • No
   • No Need
4. Does it need to update dependencies:
   • Yes
   • No
5. Are there any changes that cannot be rolled back:
   • Yes (If Yes, please explain WHY)
   • No

Further comments

If this is a relatively large or complex change, kick off the discussion at dev@doris.apache.org by explaining why you chose the solution you did and what alternatives you considered, etc...

[github-actions]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

[hello-stephen]

TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 34.44 seconds
load time: 431 seconds
storage size: 17123356296 Bytes
https://doris-community-test-1308700295.cos.ap-hongkong.myqcloud.com/tmp/20221205021624_clickbench_pr_57588.html

[github-actions]

clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

[yiguolei]

LGTM

[yiguolei]

Just merge it and then we could improve it step by step.

[github-actions]

PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.

[github-actions]

PR approved by anyone and no changes requested.