[fix](nereids) bind sort key priority problem

[englefly]

Proposed changes

Problem summary

1. add strict mode for SlotBinder. in strict mode, binding must matches qualifier
2. for sort key binding, we first use strict mode, then loose mode

cases:

table t (int a, int b)
case1. select a as b from t order by t.b
case2. select a as b from t order by b
case3. select a as b from t order by t.b + b

TODO:

1. bind on grandson

currently,
sort
+---project
+-----grandSon

sort key can be bound on project.output and grandSon.output.
But there are some cases in which sort key should be bound on the output of grandSon's children.
For example grandSon is
t1 join ( t2 join t3)
and order key is t3.x

2. similar problems in group by
   case1. select a as b from t group by t.b
   case2. select a as b from t group by b
   case3. select a as b from t group by t.b + b

Issue Number: close #xxx

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4. Does it need to update dependencies:
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5. Are there any changes that cannot be rolled back:
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