[fix](tablet clone) fix not add colocate replica and print some logs

[yujun777]

Proposed changes

1. When be reports its tablets to FE, if this be is one of the tablet's colocate backends, then add it back.
2. When chosing a dest replica for a version incomplete replica, prefer to choose the colocate backend.
3. Add some logs too.

Further comments

If this is a relatively large or complex change, kick off the discussion at dev@doris.apache.org by explaining why you chose the solution you did and what alternatives you considered, etc...

[yujun777]

run buildall

[hello-stephen]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 47.34 seconds
stream load tsv: 507 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 140 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 65 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 32 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 25 MB/s
insert into select: 29.4 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 340K ops/s
storage size: 17167544308 Bytes

[yujun777]

run buildall

[hello-stephen]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 48.81 seconds
stream load tsv: 511 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 139 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 66 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 15 MB/s
stream load parquet: 31 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 26 MB/s
insert into select: 29.3 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 341K ops/s
storage size: 17168510979 Bytes

[dataroaring]

LGTM

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PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.

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PR approved by anyone and no changes requested.

[yiguolei]

LGTM