[enhancement](Nereids) remove stats derivation in CostAndEnforce job

[keanji-x]

Proposed changes

1. remove stats derivation in CostAndEnforce job
2. enforce valid for each stats after estimating

Further comments

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[keanji-x]

run buildall

[keanji-x]

run buildall

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 46.37 seconds
stream load tsv: 572 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 124 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 64 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 32 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 25 MB/s
insert into select: 28.6 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 349K ops/s
storage size: 17162616965 Bytes

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 45.71 seconds
stream load tsv: 576 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 123 MB/s
stream load json: 20 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 112 MB/s
stream load orc: 64 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 31 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 26 MB/s
insert into select: 29.3 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 341K ops/s
storage size: 17162339018 Bytes

[keanji-x]

run buildall

[github-actions]

PR approved by at least one committer and no changes requested.

[github-actions]

PR approved by anyone and no changes requested.

[doris-robot]

(From new machine)TeamCity pipeline, clickbench performance test result:
the sum of best hot time: 45.86 seconds
stream load tsv: 560 seconds loaded 74807831229 Bytes, about 127 MB/s
stream load json: 21 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 107 MB/s
stream load orc: 64 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 16 MB/s
stream load parquet: 33 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 24 MB/s
insert into select: 29.2 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 342K ops/s
storage size: 17162273549 Bytes