[chore](be) Support config max message size for be thrift server #36467

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Cherry-pick #36467

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run buildall

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clang-tidy review says "All clean, LGTM! 👍"

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TPC-H: Total hot run time: 50147 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit 56e532a3bf2af84e069e64ccbad07bbce425c052, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	17625	4450	4393	4393
q2	2061	161	153	153
q3	10331	1895	1902	1895
q4	10106	1280	1357	1280
q5	8745	4187	3900	3900
q6	229	149	122	122
q7	2018	1604	1631	1604
q8	9265	2749	2724	2724
q9	10602	10346	10253	10253
q10	8629	3498	3530	3498
q11	418	251	242	242
q12	477	305	297	297
q13	18402	4049	4133	4049
q14	368	334	341	334
q15	519	460	461	460
q16	705	595	598	595
q17	1155	985	988	985
q18	7376	6870	6886	6870
q19	1783	1621	1612	1612
q20	554	317	299	299
q21	4508	4156	4133	4133
q22	542	449	450	449
Total cold run time: 116418 ms
Total hot run time: 50147 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	4338	4291	4353	4291
q2	320	231	220	220
q3	4213	4133	4108	4108
q4	2753	2754	2778	2754
q5	7285	7151	7098	7098
q6	237	118	119	118
q7	3282	2869	2841	2841
q8	4397	4510	4507	4507
q9	16812	16829	16775	16775
q10	4264	4267	4260	4260
q11	745	705	669	669
q12	1032	880	845	845
q13	6691	3758	3761	3758
q14	449	419	424	419
q15	521	466	459	459
q16	725	683	668	668
q17	3845	3904	3875	3875
q18	8904	8762	8815	8762
q19	1743	1746	1677	1677
q20	2338	2169	2109	2109
q21	8561	8490	8438	8438
q22	1024	977	978	977
Total cold run time: 84479 ms
Total hot run time: 79628 ms

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TeamCity be ut coverage result:
Function Coverage: 37.87% (8109/21415)
Line Coverage: 29.54% (66374/224691)
Region Coverage: 29.02% (34214/117913)
Branch Coverage: 24.88% (17567/70598)
Coverage Report: http://coverage.selectdb-in.cc/coverage/56e532a3bf2af84e069e64ccbad07bbce425c052_56e532a3bf2af84e069e64ccbad07bbce425c052/report/index.html

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TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 203702 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit 56e532a3bf2af84e069e64ccbad07bbce425c052, data reload: false

query1	933	395	409	395
query2	6562	2965	2629	2629
query3	6917	206	200	200
query4	21138	17978	17995	17978
query5	19733	6512	6516	6512
query6	292	225	244	225
query7	4156	322	308	308
query8	504	410	418	410
query9	3073	2671	2605	2605
query10	429	316	282	282
query11	11251	10633	10598	10598
query12	128	81	80	80
query13	5598	707	692	692
query14	17563	13547	14128	13547
query15	360	251	241	241
query16	6462	287	261	261
query17	1700	1450	890	890
query18	2299	434	414	414
query19	215	147	157	147
query20	73	77	78	77
query21	190	94	99	94
query22	5165	4964	5025	4964
query23	32858	31779	31977	31779
query24	7070	6510	6535	6510
query25	527	439	455	439
query26	615	164	167	164
query27	2011	290	301	290
query28	6206	2324	2262	2262
query29	2865	2765	2625	2625
query30	240	162	167	162
query31	918	759	724	724
query32	66	66	62	62
query33	412	259	266	259
query34	852	471	474	471
query35	1169	950	923	923
query36	1319	1157	1053	1053
query37	90	65	61	61
query38	3079	2964	2922	2922
query39	1393	1338	1358	1338
query40	205	96	96	96
query41	48	47	45	45
query42	80	84	85	84
query43	836	670	680	670
query44	1157	726	723	723
query45	248	240	236	236
query46	1225	986	958	958
query47	1954	1653	1772	1653
query48	1014	737	727	727
query49	612	371	377	371
query50	864	622	587	587
query51	4745	4565	4672	4565
query52	97	83	89	83
query53	464	327	323	323
query54	2665	2476	2485	2476
query55	88	84	83	83
query56	246	221	214	214
query57	1167	1073	1043	1043
query58	221	211	215	211
query59	4135	4387	3916	3916
query60	216	208	231	208
query61	103	100	100	100
query62	850	465	465	465
query63	493	348	356	348
query64	2607	1548	1506	1506
query65	3709	3574	3578	3574
query66	781	372	383	372
query67	15893	15750	15560	15560
query68	8673	678	653	653
query69	566	367	361	361
query70	1718	1291	1300	1291
query71	405	308	314	308
query72	6550	3513	3509	3509
query73	725	322	313	313
query74	6261	5809	5840	5809
query75	5269	3694	3661	3661
query76	5189	1142	1208	1142
query77	835	266	260	260
query78	12659	11802	12564	11802
query79	12943	640	634	634
query80	1424	407	415	407
query81	495	234	233	233
query82	1194	102	100	100
query83	181	136	137	136
query84	261	72	72	72
query85	950	332	329	329
query86	333	348	332	332
query87	3284	3044	3047	3044
query88	5579	2310	2300	2300
query89	437	326	287	287
query90	2688	217	207	207
query91	190	139	153	139
query92	58	55	56	55
query93	6232	636	564	564
query94	1353	220	210	210
query95	1126	1088	1068	1068
query96	653	330	328	328
query97	6488	6353	6315	6315
query98	193	184	180	180
query99	2818	929	863	863
Total cold run time: 320884 ms
Total hot run time: 203702 ms

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ClickBench: Total hot run time: 29.54 s

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/clickbench-tools
ClickBench test result on commit 56e532a3bf2af84e069e64ccbad07bbce425c052, data reload: false

query1	0.02	0.02	0.02
query2	0.06	0.02	0.02
query3	0.25	0.05	0.05
query4	1.78	0.07	0.08
query5	0.54	0.52	0.52
query6	1.24	0.61	0.62
query7	0.02	0.01	0.01
query8	0.03	0.02	0.02
query9	0.53	0.49	0.48
query10	0.52	0.54	0.55
query11	0.12	0.09	0.09
query12	0.11	0.10	0.09
query13	0.63	0.62	0.61
query14	0.80	0.81	0.78
query15	0.77	0.75	0.75
query16	0.36	0.37	0.36
query17	1.02	1.00	0.98
query18	0.23	0.26	0.22
query19	1.91	1.84	1.87
query20	0.02	0.01	0.01
query21	15.44	0.54	0.56
query22	2.12	2.53	0.71
query23	16.66	1.15	0.94
query24	6.74	0.56	1.94
query25	0.41	0.13	0.05
query26	0.70	0.15	0.16
query27	0.04	0.05	0.04
query28	6.07	0.74	0.76
query29	12.62	2.43	2.38
query30	0.64	0.54	0.54
query31	2.82	0.39	0.37
query32	3.38	0.49	0.50
query33	3.07	3.07	3.07
query34	15.63	4.82	4.80
query35	4.84	4.85	4.82
query36	1.06	1.02	1.01
query37	0.05	0.05	0.05
query38	0.04	0.02	0.02
query39	0.02	0.01	0.02
query40	0.16	0.14	0.13
query41	0.06	0.01	0.01
query42	0.02	0.02	0.02
query43	0.02	0.02	0.02
Total cold run time: 103.57 s
Total hot run time: 29.54 s

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Load test result on machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'

Load test result on commit 56e532a3bf2af84e069e64ccbad07bbce425c052 with default session variables
Stream load json:         19 seconds loaded 2358488459 Bytes, about 118 MB/s
Stream load orc:          58 seconds loaded 1101869774 Bytes, about 18 MB/s
Stream load parquet:      31 seconds loaded 861443392 Bytes, about 26 MB/s
Insert into select:       21.1 seconds inserted 10000000 Rows, about 473K ops/s