branch-3.0: [opt](log) add more info in nereids timeout log #45705

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Cherry-picked from #45705

[Thearas]

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run buildall

[doris-robot]

TPC-H: Total hot run time: 40278 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit 1c78da43cb29ce6c48671ddcad1eae1f4431b92e, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	17577	7795	7270	7270
q2	2058	182	161	161
q3	10747	1046	1119	1046
q4	10553	741	743	741
q5	7723	2747	2741	2741
q6	238	148	145	145
q7	960	620	592	592
q8	9343	1887	1938	1887
q9	6548	6370	6403	6370
q10	7000	2236	2283	2236
q11	451	259	251	251
q12	390	204	203	203
q13	17764	2974	2964	2964
q14	229	202	200	200
q15	556	511	512	511
q16	666	615	617	615
q17	969	566	523	523
q18	7221	6479	6522	6479
q19	3246	1036	985	985
q20	498	214	208	208
q21	3963	3147	3174	3147
q22	1100	1010	1003	1003
Total cold run time: 109800 ms
Total hot run time: 40278 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	7415	7343	7321	7321
q2	326	232	236	232
q3	2960	2871	2901	2871
q4	2024	1827	1724	1724
q5	5697	5760	5694	5694
q6	234	144	149	144
q7	2194	1776	1807	1776
q8	3330	3548	3461	3461
q9	8862	9082	8999	8999
q10	3600	3623	3555	3555
q11	613	503	509	503
q12	827	633	641	633
q13	16708	3188	3085	3085
q14	325	268	269	268
q15	578	506	519	506
q16	701	670	667	667
q17	1866	1616	1601	1601
q18	8097	7766	7586	7586
q19	5572	1532	1382	1382
q20	2055	1851	1869	1851
q21	9281	5253	5163	5163
q22	1125	1025	1004	1004
Total cold run time: 84390 ms
Total hot run time: 60026 ms

[doris-robot]

TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 195064 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit 1c78da43cb29ce6c48671ddcad1eae1f4431b92e, data reload: false

query1	1270	915	893	893
query2	6223	2083	2050	2050
query3	10849	4058	4156	4058
query4	62691	30080	23239	23239
query5	5194	445	446	445
query6	412	179	180	179
query7	5675	305	317	305
query8	317	227	235	227
query9	9444	2670	2651	2651
query10	508	282	253	253
query11	18063	15138	15877	15138
query12	164	105	108	105
query13	1598	435	423	423
query14	10965	7612	6595	6595
query15	198	176	175	175
query16	6785	529	488	488
query17	1118	600	587	587
query18	1746	311	299	299
query19	251	161	170	161
query20	117	111	110	110
query21	63	44	46	44
query22	4762	4838	4501	4501
query23	34657	34123	34033	34033
query24	6102	2976	3044	2976
query25	532	414	414	414
query26	668	178	163	163
query27	1705	304	303	303
query28	4539	2541	2497	2497
query29	670	430	411	411
query30	237	159	166	159
query31	966	821	835	821
query32	64	57	54	54
query33	437	277	273	273
query34	901	499	514	499
query35	839	734	738	734
query36	1080	965	949	949
query37	120	72	69	69
query38	4111	4098	4002	4002
query39	1497	1479	1464	1464
query40	139	79	77	77
query41	46	45	44	44
query42	111	96	99	96
query43	523	508	499	499
query44	1123	769	789	769
query45	186	173	177	173
query46	1175	703	697	697
query47	1980	1921	1922	1921
query48	462	369	378	369
query49	710	379	380	379
query50	812	400	425	400
query51	7418	7313	7213	7213
query52	99	93	94	93
query53	271	189	179	179
query54	554	443	451	443
query55	76	72	76	72
query56	260	248	240	240
query57	1230	1157	1122	1122
query58	201	191	199	191
query59	3174	3223	2760	2760
query60	265	247	238	238
query61	105	104	104	104
query62	762	662	661	661
query63	209	177	177	177
query64	1422	649	645	645
query65	3252	3138	3174	3138
query66	691	297	293	293
query67	16002	15349	15258	15258
query68	4483	552	548	548
query69	440	251	252	251
query70	1165	1059	1093	1059
query71	382	257	248	248
query72	6520	4021	3953	3953
query73	750	337	347	337
query74	10201	8880	8907	8880
query75	3323	2604	2629	2604
query76	2075	992	1049	992
query77	610	279	282	279
query78	10772	9748	9631	9631
query79	6652	585	591	585
query80	1912	406	425	406
query81	562	242	235	235
query82	946	126	115	115
query83	321	145	143	143
query84	293	79	80	79
query85	1650	299	288	288
query86	475	297	289	289
query87	4450	4240	4217	4217
query88	5305	2340	2362	2340
query89	410	285	285	285
query90	1989	180	187	180
query91	185	141	143	141
query92	64	48	50	48
query93	5719	528	520	520
query94	855	289	282	282
query95	352	245	251	245
query96	610	284	275	275
query97	3351	3121	3166	3121
query98	222	204	195	195
query99	1603	1308	1295	1295
Total cold run time: 329443 ms
Total hot run time: 195064 ms