make agg shuffle one key configurable

[feiniaofeiafei]

This pull request adds a session variable agg_shuffle_key_opt_threshold to control the choose_one_shuffle_key optimization. Its default value is 5, meaning the optimization is only applied when the number of GROUP BY keys exceeds 5.

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