[branch-4.1][chore](cloud) Enable txn lazy commit by default (pick #58732 #61506)

[gavinchou]

Summary

This PR picks #58732 and #61506 to branch-4.1.

Enable enable_cloud_txn_lazy_commit by default for cloud mode.

Changes

• BE: Change enable_cloud_txn_lazy_commit default value from false to true
• FE: Change enable_cloud_txn_lazy_commit default value from false to true

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[gavinchou]

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BE UT Coverage Report

Increment line coverage 🎉

Increment coverage report
Complete coverage report

Category	Coverage
Function Coverage	52.82% (19393/36713)
Line Coverage	36.23% (181403/500711)
Region Coverage	32.69% (140172/428783)
Branch Coverage	33.69% (61026/181123)

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BE Regression && UT Coverage Report

Increment line coverage 100% (0/0) 🎉

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Category	Coverage
Function Coverage	71.36% (25641/35934)
Line Coverage	54.19% (270851/499772)
Region Coverage	51.46% (222817/433021)
Branch Coverage	53.00% (96335/181749)

[yiguolei]

skip buildall