[emhancement](compaction) disable compaction pause on high memory by default

[luwei16]

pick master #61288

High compaction score keeps more rowset metadata,
delete bitmaps, and version graph state in
memory.

Pausing compaction on high memory makes those
high-score tablets harder to merge, so
metadata backlog and memory pressure become
harder to bring down.

Disable this pause by default to avoid
reinforcing that feedback loop.

[Thearas]

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[luwei16]

run buildall

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BE UT Coverage Report

Increment line coverage 🎉

Increment coverage report
Complete coverage report

Category	Coverage
Function Coverage	52.84% (19678/37244)
Line Coverage	36.23% (184191/508413)
Region Coverage	32.50% (142376/438095)
Branch Coverage	33.70% (62608/185776)

[hello-stephen]

BE Regression && UT Coverage Report

Increment line coverage 100% (0/0) 🎉

Increment coverage report
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Category	Coverage
Function Coverage	71.09% (25915/36452)
Line Coverage	53.87% (272943/506703)
Region Coverage	51.15% (226124/442057)
Branch Coverage	52.59% (97982/186304)