[fix](be) Fix macOS Apple Silicon (arm64) compilation and build issues

[yx-keith]

This commit collects all changes required to compile and run the BE unit tests on macOS 15+ / Apple Silicon (arm64) with Apple Clang 17.

Build system (CMake / run-be-ut.sh)

• run-be-ut.sh: auto-detect Apple Clang 17 and Homebrew JDK-17 on macOS
• be/CMakeLists.txt: set DISABLE_ANN compile definition before add_subdirectory(storage/index/ann) so ann_index sees the flag; always build ann_index (production code links against it regardless of FAISS availability)
• be/src/storage/CMakeLists.txt, be/src/exprs/CMakeLists.txt: always link ann_index
• be/test/CMakeLists.txt: always exclude ANN test files from the monolithic doris_be_test target
• be/src/storage/index/ann/CMakeLists.txt: guard OpenMP / faiss link with if(NOT DISABLE_ANN)
• be/src/storage/index/ann/cmake-protect/CMakeLists.txt: strip ASAN/UBSAN flags from OpenBLAS sub-build (prevents getarch hang on macOS); disable OpenMP in OpenBLAS on Apple Silicon; force ARMV8 target

Source portability fixes

• be/src/common/factory_creator.h: use std::shared_ptr(new T) instead of std::make_shared on Apple to avoid libc++ compressed_pair bug
• be/src/common/multi_version.h: use atomic_shared_ptr wrapper
• be/src/core/binary_cast.hpp: add missing #include
• be/src/core/value/vdatetime_value.h: guard non-const copy ctor with #ifndef APPLE (Apple Clang 17 rejects it for trivially-copyable)
• be/src/exec/common/memory.cpp: disambiguate std::max literal types
• be/src/load/routine_load/kinesis_conf.cpp: explicit int64_t cast for Aws::Utils::DateTime constructor
• be/src/macos_patches/__ranges/lazy_split_view.h: libc++ patch for std::ranges::lazy_split_view used in tests
• be/src/storage/index/ann/ann_index_writer.cpp, be/src/storage/index/ann/ann_index_reader.cpp: guard faiss includes and FaissVectorIndex usage with #ifndef DISABLE_ANN
• be/src/storage/index/ann/faiss_ann_index.cpp, be/src/storage/index/ann/faiss_ann_index.h: wrap entire file body with #ifndef DISABLE_ANN
• be/src/exprs/function/array/function_array_distance.h: provide inline FAISS stubs under #else DISABLE_ANN so L1/L2/IP distance classes compile without FAISS headers
• be/src/storage/segment/segment_writer.h: move _is_mow() and _is_mow_with_cluster_key() inline definitions from the .cpp to the .h; macOS linker dead-strips out-of-line inline symbols, causing TestSegmentWriter link failures
• be/src/storage/segment/segment_writer.cpp: remove the now-redundant inline definitions

Test portability fixes

• be/test/udf/python/python_env_test.cpp: replace sighandler_t (Linux glibc extension) with void (*)(int)
• be/test/storage/segment/inverted_index_reader_test.cpp: local copy for vector element to avoid proxy-reference UB in template
• be/test/storage/index/ann/*.cpp: guard faiss / HNSW includes with #ifndef DISABLE_ANN
• Multiple test files: add LL suffix to large integer literals, replace std::ranges::iota_view loops, add missing #include , and disambiguate int64_t literal types to satisfy Apple Clang 17

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