[C++] support c++ std::any serialization

### Feature Request

support c++ std::any serialization

### Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe

_No response_

### Describe the solution you'd like

extend existing TypeInfo and Hareness, capture two new closures to write `std::any` and read to  `std::any` 

### Describe alternatives you've considered

_No response_

### Additional context

#2906 
#1017 