[GLUTEN-6887][VL] Daily Update Velox Version (2025_12_19)

[rui-mo]

This PR only rebases the basic branch, and the enhanced branch needs to be further rebased after the conflicts in IBM/velox#425 are solved.

Upstream Velox's New Commits:

e3e83289fc by Pedro Eugenio Rocha Pedreira, refactor(text-reader): String usage cleanup (#15812)
385cb03cd4 by Masha Basmanova, perf: Avoid double lookup in maps in SignatureBinder (#15804)
77852de815 by Masha Basmanova, fix: Do not bind UNKNOWN type to another type (#15802)
c019fbd0bd by Pratik Pugalia, fix: Nanos validation in Timestamp::tmToStringView (#15786)
e3bd98d381 by Masha Basmanova, feat: Add sanity checks for function signatures with variable arity argument (#15800)
77eaed4e2a by Masha Basmanova, perf: Use boost::algorithm::iequals to compare type names (#15801)
12e5c7b346 by Masha Basmanova, fix(cudf): Replace tryBindWithCoercions call with tryBind (#15799)
0973497540 by MJ Deng, feat(function): Support 10 key-value pairs in Spark map function (#15794)
6ced2785a1 by Rui Mo, misc: Allow registration of custom buffered input (#15781)
3941045700 by Avinaash Gupta, misc: Revert usage of rowVectorToIOBufBatch (batch serialization) in Remote function udf (#15796)
92779b3e0e by Xiao Du, misc: Add null checks for trace node lookups (#15795)
40285f4272 by Carl Shapiro, misc: Respect Linux cgroups restrictions when sizing thread pools (#15719)
dbfe5e4a18 by Zhen Li, fix: Prevent integer overflow in PrefixSort memory estimation (#15789)
1a6cbf69a2 by Abhinav Mukherjee, Fix map_except to handle null elements in complex keys gracefully (#15775)
eec00ebc0a by Muhammad Haseeb, feat(cudf): Integrate the new cudf parquet reader (#15482)
cb994015d1 by Matt Gara, fix: CMake CMP0002 issue due to velox_aggregates defined in add_library twice (#15787)
ef67c24372 by Bikramjeet Vig, Fix string buffer ownership transfer in side table reader (#15792)
bd0c7741a1 by Ping Liu, feat(parquet): Support write field_id to metadata SchemaElement (#14741)
14a6921661 by James Gill, fix(geo): Fix correctness issue with spatial joins on GeometryCollections (#15778)

velox_branch: https://github.com/IBM/velox/commits/dft-2025_12_18

Related issue: #6887