[WIP][GLUTEN-10215][VL] Delta 4 native write support for Spark 4.0

[malinjawi]

What changes are proposed in this pull request?

This PR adds native Delta Lake write support for Spark 4.0 + Delta 4.0 in the Velox backend.

Main changes:

• Add Delta 4 write offload integration in Delta write operators and command offload path.
• Wire Delta-specific parquet file format and optimistic transaction write path for native execution.
• Add native write statistics tracking plumbing used by Delta write.
• Add Delta optimized writer offload integration for the Delta 4 path.

Scope note:

• This PR is focused on native write support only.
• Delta 4 test-suite expansion is split into separate PR(s) for reviewability.

Part of #10215.

How was this patch tested?

• Compile/build validation with Spark 4.0 + Delta 4 profile:

./build/mvn -pl backends-velox -am -Pbackends-velox,delta,spark-4.0,scala-2.13,java-17 -DskipTests -Dcheckstyle.skip=true -Dspotless.skip=true -Dscalastyle.skip=true compile