Add totalMessageReceivedCounter and decrepcate old totalMessageReceived

[junkaixue]

Issues

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fixes #1249

Description

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Currently we should have counter type for totalMessageReceived but did not make it correct.
To fix this, we should have the a new counter metrics instead of directly changing the metrics for smooth migration.

Tests

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  [INFO] Results:
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  [ERROR] Failures:
  [ERROR] TestWagedRebalance.testChangeIdealState:303->validate:646 expected: but was:
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  [ERROR] Tests run: 1163, Failures: 1, Errors: 0, Skipped: 0
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  [INFO] BUILD FAILURE
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  [INFO] Total time: 01:22 h
  [INFO] Finished at: 2020-08-11T14:56:32-07:00
  [INFO] Final Memory: 32M/1106M
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[INFO] Tests run: 11, Failures: 0, Errors: 0, Skipped: 0, Time elapsed: 58.931 s - in org.apache.helix.integration.rebalancer.WagedRebalancer.TestWagedRebalance
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[INFO] Results:
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[INFO] Tests run: 11, Failures: 0, Errors: 0, Skipped: 0
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[INFO] BUILD SUCCESS
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[INFO] Total time: 01:05 min
[INFO] Finished at: 2020-08-11T15:35:08-07:00
[INFO] Final Memory: 32M/1113M
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[junkaixue]

This PR is ready to be merged.