Review and shade transitive dependencies in hudi bundle jar

[hudi-bot]

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#4793 (comment)

Scope

• review and adjust the bundling and shaded dependencies
• test and verify functionalities in different environments and downstream integration (e.g. with Kyuubi)

JIRA info

• Link: https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HUDI-3531
• Type: Improvement
• Epic: https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HUDI-3529
• Fix version(s):
  • 1.1.0