Add validation as optinal param for generic rocord rewrite

[hudi-bot]

HoodieAvroUtils.rewriteRecordDeep does not do any datatype/null check validations . 

So we need capability to do validations when target schema is not same as inferred schema

JIRA info

• Link: https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HUDI-4791
• Type: Improvement