Make Hudi compatible to Spark 3.4.0 improvements

[hudi-bot]

[https://spark.apache.org/releases/spark-release-3-4-0.html]

Support some improved SQL features like - 

[SPARK-40956] SQL Equivalent for Dataframe overwrite command
INSERT INTO table1 REPLACE WHERE key = 3 SELECT * FROM table2
will, in an atomic operation, 1) delete rows with key = 3 and 2) insert rows from table2

JIRA info

• Link: https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HUDI-6166
• Type: Improvement
• Fix version(s):
  • 0.16.0
  • 1.1.0