[HUDI-7802] Fix bundle validation scripts

[yihua]

Change Logs

This PR makes several fixes to the bundle validation scripts:

• .github/workflows/release_candidate_validation.yml
  • Adds Spark 3.5 and Scala 2.13 validation
  • Removes ignored paths to avoid CI actions being cancelled
• packaging/bundle-validation/ci_run.sh
  • Uses STAGING_REPO_NUM to determine whether to validate built bundle jars or release candidate jars
  • Fixes Spark 3.5 and Scala 2.13 validation
• scripts/release/validate_staged_bundles.sh
  • Adds new bundle jars to validate
  • Makes curl requests parallelized to save time

Impact

Improves bundle validation scripts.

Risk level

none

Documentation Update

none

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