[HUDI-6433] Make the meta sync of streaming sink thread safe

[danny0405]

Change Logs

Prevent the meta sync happens concurrently from multi threads for the same meta client.

Here is the error trace thrown by Hive:

ConcurrentModificationException; Request ID: 0c9f3006-e454-4289-a91f-77722b0c5d18; Proxy: null)) Caused by:
org.apache.hudi.hive.HoodieHiveSyncException: Failed to get update last commit time synced to
Option{val=20230623090402189} Caused by: org.apache.hudi.exception.HoodieException: Got runtime exception when
hive syncing lks_mexc_t_spot_order_deal Caused by: org.apache.hudi.exception.HoodieException: Could not sync using
the meta sync class org.apache.hudi.hive.HiveSyncTool Exception in thread "main"
org.apache.spark.sql.streaming.StreamingQueryException: Could not sync using the meta sync class org.apache.hudi.hive.HiveSyncTool...

Impact

none

Risk level (write none, low medium or high below)

none

Documentation Update

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  changes to the website.

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