[INLONG-4814][Sort][Manager] Declare the primary key for sink table when the query contains update/delete

[Greedyu]

Handling exceptions: please declare primary key for sink table when query contains update/delete record.

• Fixes [Bug][Sort][Manager] Declare the primary key for sink table when the query contains update/delete #4814

Briefly describe ideas

1. The problem is that with flink JDBC SQL you have to specify the primary key.
   

2. When the Sort module sees the processing of primaryKey, it should be a problem with the parameters in the node. Gotta go check it out
   

3. Debug test locates that the primaryKey in the file read by sort is indeed empty

4. To query the source of assignment of GroupInfo.StreamInfo.nodes, there are only CreateSortConfigListenerV2 and CreateStreamSortConfigListener classes, and they are both created by the createNodesForStream() method.
   

5. Test after bug fixes

[thesumery]

@Greedyu
Hello, thanks for your issue!
There are some reasons that clickhouse sink didn't release the ability of update/delete：

1. clickhouse update operations is heavy, it will takes precedence over all others operation to execute, so it has a poor performance. It is more suitable for batch scenes but not streaming scenes where operations are performed frequently.

[thesumery]

@yunqingmoswu @Greedyu
If user want to use update scenes, how about this two different solution：

1. Import update ability，but should tell users the limitation（all code and docs should comment it). In additional what you have submitte in this pr, you should also change update and delete statement in ClickHouseDialect.
2. Enable upstream append-mode，so upstream produce record is only append stream. Add time and rowkind field in clickhouse table, those two filed comes from upstream table metadata fileds.Usersdecides how to deduplicate the downstream olap sql.

[Greedyu]

@yunqingmoswu @Greedyu If user want to use update scenes, how about this two different solution：

1. Import update ability，but should tell users the limitation（all code and docs should comment it). In additional what you have submitte in this pr, you should also change update and delete statement in ClickHouseDialect.
2. Enable upstream append-mode，so upstream produce record is only append stream. Add time and rowkind field in clickhouse table, those two filed comes from upstream table metadata fileds.Usersdecides how to deduplicate the downstream olap sql.

I thought this was just a bug before, but I didn't expect this ability to be purposely not supported.
But there is still a question, why does the normal mode create group also generate Flink cdc sql

[EMsnap]

please add some commentary on the cost of clickhouse update when added primary key

[Greedyu]

added

Add in ClickHouseLoadNode class

[yunqingmoswu]

LGTM

[thesumery]

LGTM