PolarisEventListener may produce events that relate to phantom data #2990
Description
Describe the bug
Main discussion: https://lists.apache.org/thread/5og0qjo8l9rf0kytqjg4gn7d9r81gf79
Summary: PolarisEventListener may be called with before/after events on tables, whose changes are not actually committed to Polaris Persistence.
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Actual Behavior
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Expected Behavior
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Additional context
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System information
Polaris version: 1.2.0