Support exclude the message when reset cursor by message ID

[codelipenghui]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.
Currently, when reset the cursor to a position, the broker will set the mark delete position to the previous position of the reset position. For some usecase, we don't want to consume the reset position again, so it's better to provide a way to reset the cursor to a specific position and exclude this position. So that the consumers under the subscription can start consume messages from the next position of the reset position.

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