Open Api tp set consume message max size

[ShannonDing]

What is the purpose of the change

Allow user to set the max size of consume message

Brief changelog

add api

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Codecov Report

Merging #205 into native will decrease coverage by 0.4%.
The diff coverage is 0%.

@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##           native     #205      +/-   ##
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- Coverage   26.52%   26.12%   -0.41%     
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  Files          46       46              
  Lines        4674     4677       +3     
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- Hits         1240     1222      -18     
- Misses       3262     3282      +20     
- Partials      172      173       +1

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
consumer/option.go	28.57% <0%> (-1.62%)	⬇️
consumer/statistics.go	61.73% <0%> (-7.83%)	⬇️

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[ShannonDing]

duplicate to #206