Optimize combine statement convert logic and SQLFederationRowEnumerator logic

[strongduanmu]

Fixes #21417.

Changes proposed in this pull request:

• optimize combine statement convert logic when statement contains order by and limit
• optimize SQLFederationRowEnumerator logic for combine statement
• add unit test and integration test

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