Add MetaDataHeldRule for SQLFederationRule to refresh plannerContext when metadata change

[strongduanmu]

Ref #26011.

Changes proposed in this pull request:

• add MetaDataHeldRule for SQLFederationRule to refresh plannerContext when metadata change

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