Banyandb support update tag family

[wankai123]

• If this pull request closes/resolves/fixes an existing issue, replace the issue number. Closes #.
• Update the CHANGES log.

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Pull request overview

This PR updates the BanyanDB storage installer behavior around boot-time schema reshaping to support tag relocation between tag families (triggered by toggling @Column(storageOnly=...)) and to avoid partial reconciliation of dependent resources (IndexRules/Bindings) when the primary stream/measure/trace shape check is skipped due to non-additive divergence. It also bumps the BanyanDB version used in tests and updates documentation to reflect the new semantics and operator caveats.

Changes:

• Allow “purely additive” boot reshape to include tag relocation across families (storage-only ↔ searchable) and gate dependent IndexRule/Binding reconciliation on the primary shape check outcome.
• Add an integration test covering the relocation boot-reshape path and update docs + changelog accordingly.
• Update e2e test BanyanDB image commit SHA.

Reviewed changes

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File	Description
test/e2e-v2/script/env	Bumps the BanyanDB image commit used by e2e.
oap-server/.../BanyanDBIT.java	Adds an IT for storageOnly toggle relocation behavior at boot.
oap-server/.../BanyanDBIndexInstaller.java	Implements relocation-tolerant additive checks and prevents dependent resource reconciliation after a primary SKIPPED_SHAPE_MISMATCH.
docs/en/concepts-and-designs/runtime-rule-hot-update.md	Documents additive reshape cases (including relocation) and dependent reconcile gating + operator caveat.
docs/en/changes/changes.md	Updates CHANGES entry to include relocation + dependent reconcile gating + caveat.

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