Add a knob to guard the gray failure detection during TLog recovery

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Add a knob to guard the gray failure detection during TLog recovery, to easily turn it off if anything goes wrong.

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Result of foundationdb-pr-clang-ide on Linux CentOS 7

• Commit ID: 83992d6
• Duration 0:20:05
• Result: ✅ SUCCEEDED
• Error: N/A
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• Build Workspace zip file of the working directory (available for 30 days)

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Result of foundationdb-pr-macos on macOS Ventura 13.x

• Commit ID: 83992d6
• Duration 0:41:30
• Result: ✅ SUCCEEDED
• Error: N/A
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• Build Workspace zip file of the working directory (available for 30 days)

[foundationdb-ci]

Result of foundationdb-pr-clang on Linux CentOS 7

• Commit ID: 83992d6
• Duration 0:53:32
• Result: ✅ SUCCEEDED
• Error: N/A
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[foundationdb-ci]

Result of foundationdb-pr on Linux CentOS 7

• Commit ID: 83992d6
• Duration 1:00:37
• Result: ✅ SUCCEEDED
• Error: N/A
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Result of foundationdb-pr-cluster-tests on Linux CentOS 7

• Commit ID: 83992d6
• Duration 1:23:30
• Result: ❌ FAILED
• Error: Error while executing command: if $fail_test; then exit 1; fi. Reason: exit status 1
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• Build Workspace zip file of the working directory (available for 30 days)
• Cluster Test Logs zip file of the test logs (available for 30 days)