fix: ensure resource status is patched before checking for updates on

[michaelhtm]

Issue #2693

Description of changes:
Currently, when a resource has the adopt-or-create annotation,
and the controller successfully adopts the resource, we immediately
check if there are any deltas and make an update call if needed.

This has been problematic for some controllers, since most return
the desired status (which will be empty during adopt-or-create).

This change ensures we update the resource status with the latest
information from AWS, requeue and handle any updates if needed,
ensuring no information is lost.

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@michaelhtm: The following tests failed, say /retest to rerun all failed tests or /retest-required to rerun all mandatory failed tests:

Test name	Commit	Details	Required	Rerun command
verify-attribution	1fedac6	link	false	/test verify-attribution
unit-test	1fedac6	link	true	/test unit-test
ec2-controller-test	1fedac6	link	true	/test ec2-controller-test

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