Add public ingress notification drivers

[cbusillo]

Summary

• add DB-backed public-ingress notification policy and delivery-attempt records
• wire incident transition delivery attempts into the public ingress monitor
• add GitHub issue, email, and Discord destination drivers with durable per-destination evidence
• document policy/delivery ownership and the initial driver set

Validation

• uv run python -m unittest
• uv run --extra dev mypy control_plane tests
• uv run --extra dev ruff check control_plane/contracts/public_ingress_monitoring.py control_plane/storage/filesystem.py control_plane/storage/postgres.py control_plane/storage/migrations/versions/f8a0b2c3d4e5_add_public_ingress_notifications.py control_plane/workflows/public_ingress_monitor.py tests/test_public_ingress_monitor.py tests/test_filesystem_store.py
• uv run --extra dev ruff format --check control_plane/contracts/public_ingress_monitoring.py control_plane/storage/filesystem.py control_plane/storage/postgres.py control_plane/storage/migrations/versions/f8a0b2c3d4e5_add_public_ingress_notifications.py control_plane/workflows/public_ingress_monitor.py tests/test_public_ingress_monitor.py tests/test_filesystem_store.py
• uv run alembic heads

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