feature: edit reflections and file edits by hand before accepting

[csala]

I want to bring this issue from upstream to your attention: Aider-AI#3085
And, more specifically this comment here: Aider-AI#3085 (comment)

In case of the current aider-ce, that request is partially outdated because here the user can still reject a proposed edit change, but I would push it further to letting the user surgically edit the proposal before moving on, and do that both in architect and code modes.

I would propose this workflow:

• user makes a request
• architect makes a high level proposal
• user can either accept the proposal, or request a change, or (this!!) edit the proposal themselves in the CLI editor of choice.
• once the proposal is final, editor makes a code change proposal
• user can either accept it, or request a change, or (this!!) edit the code diff themselves (the replace blocks only) in the CLI editor of choice
• once the user accepts, the diffs are applied

This would prevent a lot of back and forth, and also alleviate a lot of token usage when proposals cannot be immediately accepted.

Let me know if something like this is already possible here and I just missed it.

[dwash96]

So this has a PR:
https://github.com/Aider-AI/aider/pull/3090/files

I'll modify this some for this guy

[csala]

That was fast @dwash96 !
Huge thanks! I'll give it a go and report if I find any problem