feat: update pgwire to 0.37

[sunng87]

Description of Changes

Update pgwire to 0.37

Make DataRowEncoder reusable as enabled in this release, make introduce 3x performance on encoding.

API and ABI breaking changes

N/A

Expected complexity level and risk

N/A

Testing

[bfops]

Thank you for opening this! We'll work on getting it reviewed.

[bfops]

I think this is failing tests due to some changes in serialization, which would be a breaking change for us.

[sunng87]

@bfops Yes, let me look into the error when I get time.

[sunng87]

@bfops this change is related to a correction of how we encode bytea_array in pgwire. The are additional bytes required for bytea_array than bytea. However, when I check the usage of bytea_array in spacetimedb, I think we should correct to bytea because bytea is already byte array, while bytea_array is array of byte arrays. Changing the data type will fix the encoding issue.