fix(vm): tolerate missing hotplug image during attach (revert #2574)

[danilrwx]

Description

Reverts #2574 and fixes the same issue with a smaller, builder-only change.

While an image is being hotplugged via VMBDA, KubeVirt adds the volume to KVVM before the
device shows up in the VM .status.blockDeviceRefs. In that window the builder maps
(viByName/cviByName) do not contain the image yet, and setVMBDABlockDeviceDisk failed
the whole reconcile with ... image "<name>" should exist in the cluster; please recreate it.

Fix: in the VirtualImage/ClusterVirtualImage branches, skip the disk when the image is not
in the maps yet — the volume is already present and options are applied on a later reconcile.
This mirrors the already-tolerant VirtualDisk branch. Skip (not removeDisk): an attached
image is finalizer-protected, so a missing entry means the status lagged, not that the image
is gone.

Why this instead of #2574: #2574 pre-fetched VMBDA-referenced objects into the builder maps
(~120 lines + extra API Gets per reconcile) and relied on the block device status handler
reading the maps only by spec-ref name. This achieves the same result with two guards in the
one function that actually errors — no new API calls, no new coupling.

Why do we need it, and what problem does it solve?

The image exists and is Ready, but the reconcile still errors during the attach window. It
self-heals, yet spams error logs and causes requeue/backoff churn (and e2e flakiness). This
removes those false failures. Attach speed is unchanged.

What is the expected result?

Hotplug an image (VI/CVI) to a running VM: no more image "<name>" should exist in the cluster
errors during the attach; the VMBDA reaches Attached and the VM status converges cleanly.

Checklist

• The code is covered by unit tests.
• e2e tests passed.
• Documentation updated according to the changes.
• Changes were tested in the Kubernetes cluster manually.

Changelog entries

section: core
type: fix
summary: Do not fail VM reconcile while a hotplug image is being attached via VMBDA.
impact_level: low