Add negative tests for all meta-use-site target

[jaschdoc]

Depends on #2915

This PR adds the following:

• Adds a failing test for invalid use of the all use-site target on grouped annotations (see KEEP 402)

• Adds a runFailingTest function to AbstractKSPTest that asserts the expected output does not match the actual output

• Adds a runThrowingTest function to AbstractKSPTest that asserts the test throws an InternalKSPException. This can be expanded to assert other types of exceptions, but for now the idea is that it forces throwing expressions to use InternalKSPException which provides an error message with a bit more information than what one might provide with error or require.

• Refactor runTest, runFailingTest, runThrowingTest to reuse test setup code.

[jaschdoc]

Btw, since this PR was opened, a code/execution path that previously threw an exception has been fixed with a proper implementation on main. That leaves the runThrowingTest unused, but I have seen the implementation of runThrowingTest succeed by inserting exceptions (both being green by using InternalKSPException and being red under no exception and just kotlin.Exception).

The merge-base changed after approval.

[jaschdoc]

Rebased on main