fix: better and less verbose logging

[tefkah]

Issue(s) Resolved

Extremely noisy logs make it hard to debug

• Only enable the extremely verbose timing logs if DEBUG_LOG env var is set
• Make doing pn start work by reading .env.development. this should probably be changed but whatever
• log all routes, include much more detailed info about those routes. Not sure about adding the user there, maybe that's not allowed

Example:

 POST 400 /api/login 1ms | host=demo.pubpub.org | user=anon | ip=::1 | size=188 | ua=Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; Intel Mac OS X 10_15_7) AppleWebKit/537.36 (KHTML, like Gecko) Cursor/2.5.17 Chrome/142.0.7444.265 Electron/39.3.0 Safari/537.36 | origin=http://localhost:9876

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