XPU: Enable new grf_mode settings

[Egor-Krivov]

Summary

After this change in triton-xpu grf_mode api changes. This change will be active in triton-xpu>=3.6

Testing Done

I ran Liger-Kernels on new and old triton version on PVC (GPU max 1100). I run tests and relevant benchmarks.

• Hardware Type: XPU, Intel PVC (GPU max 1100)
• run make test to ensure correctness
• run make checkstyle to ensure code style
• run make test-convergence to ensure convergence

I will run all tests and update the PR description

[Egor-Krivov]

When I run tests, some of them fail:

================================================================================= short test summary info =================================================================================
FAILED test/transformers/test_fused_add_rms_norm.py::test_correctness[True-BaseAddRMSNorm-0.0-none-dtype1-0.2-0.02-2-128-512] - RuntimeError: PassManager::run failed
FAILED test/transformers/test_fused_add_rms_norm.py::test_correctness[True-BaseAddRMSNorm-0.0-none-dtype1-0.2-0.02-5-123-123] - RuntimeError: PassManager::run failed
FAILED test/transformers/test_fused_add_rms_norm.py::test_correctness[False-BaseAddRMSNorm-0.0-none-dtype1-0.2-0.02-2-128-512] - RuntimeError: PassManager::run failed
FAILED test/transformers/test_fused_add_rms_norm.py::test_correctness[False-BaseAddRMSNorm-0.0-none-dtype1-0.2-0.02-5-123-123] - RuntimeError: PassManager::run failed
FAILED test/transformers/test_geglu.py::test_correctness[dtype1-0.01-0.01-2-2048-2048-4096] - AssertionError: assert False is True
FAILED test/transformers/test_geglu.py::test_correctness[dtype1-0.01-0.01-9-41-341-4231] - AssertionError: assert False is True
FAILED test/transformers/test_rms_norm.py::test_correctness[True-True-BaseRMSNorm-0.0-none-dtype1-0.2-0.02-2-128-512] - RuntimeError: PassManager::run failed
FAILED test/transformers/test_rms_norm.py::test_correctness[True-True-BaseRMSNorm-0.0-none-dtype1-0.2-0.02-5-123-123] - RuntimeError: PassManager::run failed
FAILED test/transformers/test_rms_norm.py::test_correctness[True-False-BaseRMSNorm-0.0-none-dtype1-0.2-0.02-2-128-512] - RuntimeError: PassManager::run failed
FAILED test/transformers/test_rms_norm.py::test_correctness[True-False-BaseRMSNorm-0.0-none-dtype1-0.2-0.02-5-123-123] - RuntimeError: PassManager::run failed
FAILED test/transformers/test_rms_norm.py::test_correctness[False-True-BaseRMSNorm-0.0-none-dtype1-0.2-0.02-2-128-512] - RuntimeError: PassManager::run failed
FAILED test/transformers/test_rms_norm.py::test_correctness[False-True-BaseRMSNorm-0.0-none-dtype1-0.2-0.02-5-123-123] - RuntimeError: PassManager::run failed
FAILED test/transformers/test_rms_norm.py::test_correctness[False-False-BaseRMSNorm-0.0-none-dtype1-0.2-0.02-2-128-512] - RuntimeError: PassManager::run failed
FAILED test/transformers/test_rms_norm.py::test_correctness[False-False-BaseRMSNorm-0.0-none-dtype1-0.2-0.02-5-123-123] - RuntimeError: PassManager::run failed
========================================== 14 failed, 2360 passed, 269 skipped, 8 xfailed, 2 xpassed, 78 warnings, 37 rerun in 831.33s (0:13:51) ====

I don't think it is caused by this PR though

[Egor-Krivov]

@Tcc0403 Ready to merge

[Tcc0403]

lgtm, thanks!