feat: Migrate library to a react-native-nitro-modules

[chrispader]

This PR migrates this library to a Nitro module using the new react-native-nitro-modules.

This PR includes changes from the following Sub-PRs that were needed to make this work:

• https://github.com/margelo/react-native-quick-sqlite/pull/59

[vhakulinen]

In case you weren't aware. You can set sqlite's threading mode per connection when compiled with SQLITE_THREADSAFE set to either 1 or 2:

The SQLITE_OPEN_NOMUTEX and SQLITE_OPEN_FULLMUTEX flags to sqlite3_open_v2() can also be used to adjust the threading mode of individual database connections at run-time.

From: https://www.sqlite.org/compile.html#threadsafe

Additionally here (section 4): https://www.sqlite.org/threadsafe.html

[chrispader]

After many months of migrating, testing and benchmarking, i am finally confident to merge this PR! 🚀

Both building the library as well as performance has been thoroughly tested and works both on old and new arch, both in bridgeless and non-bridgeless mode.

The migration to react-native-modules will be a great improvement in code readability, DX, maintenance and hopefully also performance! ⚡

cc @mrousavy

[chrispader]

@vhakulinen also thanks for your input! I will hopefully address your concerns and issues in future PRs in react-native-nitro-sqlite