Fix onnx 1.19.0 issue in graph surgery

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Describe your changes

1. Fix onnx 1.19.0 issue in graph surgery
2. Pin onnx version in test requirements.txt

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• Is this PR including examples changes? If yes, please remember to update example documentation in a follow-up PR.

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