NVTX windows include and link fixes

[gedoensmax]

Description

For windows headers are not duplicated to the normal cuda include. For linux they are:

(base) maximilianm@maximilianm-dt-linux:~$ ls /usr/local/cuda/include/nvtx3 | grep nvTool
nvToolsExt.h
nvToolsExtCuda.h
nvToolsExtCudaRt.h
nvToolsExtOpenCL.h
nvToolsExtSync.h
(base) maximilianm@maximilianm-dt-linux:~$ ls /usr/local/cuda/include | grep nvTool
nvToolsExt.h
nvToolsExtCuda.h
nvToolsExtCudaRt.h
nvToolsExtOpenCL.h
nvToolsExtSync.h

Is the preference via those added defines or should the include just be changed to be nvtx3/ ?

Also there is no library linking needed on Windows and the library is not even present.

[gedoensmax]

@chilo-ms and @hariharans29 for review.

[hariharans29]

@wschin - Can you please take a look ?

[chilo-ms]

/azp run Windows GPU TensorRT CI Pipeline, onnxruntime-binary-size-checks-ci-pipeline, onnxruntime-python-checks-ci-pipeline, orttraining-linux-ci-pipeline, orttraining-linux-gpu-ci-pipeline, orttraining-ortmodule-distributed, Linux QNN CI Pipeline, Windows ARM64 QNN CI Pipeline

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[chilo-ms]

/azp run Linux CPU CI Pipeline, Linux CPU Minimal Build E2E CI Pipeline, Linux GPU CI Pipeline, Linux GPU TensorRT CI Pipeline, Linux Nuphar CI Pipeline, Linux OpenVINO CI Pipeline, MacOS CI Pipeline, ONNX Runtime Web CI Pipeline, Windows CPU CI Pipeline, Windows GPU CI Pipeline

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[gedoensmax]

@chilo-ms Can we merge this ?

[chilo-ms]

or windows headers are not duplicated to the no

I've asked @wschin for helping review it.
Also, I saw ORT Web CI failures, could you merge main and try it again?

[gedoensmax]

/* Arithmetic FP16 operations only supported on arch >= 5.3 */
#if !defined(__CUDA_ARCH__) || (__CUDA_ARCH__ >= 530) || defined(_NVHPC_CUDA)

These lines are removed from CUDA 12.2 which is why I also just added another commit fixing that in common.cuh. Hope that's fine otherwise just let me know.

[chilo-ms]

/azp run Linux CPU CI Pipeline, Linux CPU Minimal Build E2E CI Pipeline, Linux GPU CI Pipeline, Linux GPU TensorRT CI Pipeline, Linux Nuphar CI Pipeline, Linux OpenVINO CI Pipeline, MacOS CI Pipeline, ONNX Runtime Web CI Pipeline, Windows CPU CI Pipeline, Windows GPU CI Pipeline

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[snnn]

/azp run Linux QNN CI Pipeline, Windows ARM64 QNN CI Pipeline, Windows GPU TensorRT CI Pipeline, onnxruntime-binary-size-checks-ci-pipeline, orttraining-linux-ci-pipeline, orttraining-linux-gpu-ci-pipeline, orttraining-ortmodule-distributed

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[snnn]

I tried it locally. It works very good.