[Build] Fix debug build

[tianleiwu]

Description

This PR addresses several build warnings and a build error in the CUDA provider, primarily focused on improving the stability of Debug builds.

Changes

CUDA Provider Fixes

• Fix signedness comparison warnings:
  • In tile.cc, changed the axis loop variable type from size_t to int32_t to match input_rank.
  • In pad.cc, converted p_pads->size() to int32_t using narrow and updated the loop variable type to resolve signedness warnings across template instantiations.
• Fix GQA build error:
  • Added a missing include for common.cuh in group_query_attention_qkv.cuh. This resolves the identifier "CUDA_KERNEL_ASSERT" is undefined error encountered in Debug builds.

Test Improvements

• Rotary Embedding Tests:
  • Skipped out-of-bounds position ID tests in rotary_embedding_op_test.cc and test/contrib_ops/rotary_embedding_op_test.cc for Debug builds. This is necessary because CUDA device-side asserts (enabled in Debug mode) can poison the CUDA context when encountering out-of-bounds indices, causing subsequent tests to fail.

Minor Cleanup

• Simplified initializer list usage in graph_test.cc to avoid build error like:

inlined from ‘constexpr void std::vector<_Tp, _Alloc>::resize(size_type) [with _Tp = onnxruntime::NodeArg*; _Alloc = std::allocator<onnxruntime::NodeArg*>]’ at /usr/include/c++/13.2.0/bits/stl_vector.h:1013:21,
    inlined from ‘virtual void onnxruntime::test::GraphTest_GraphConstruction_CheckGraphInputOutputOrderMaintained_Test::TestBody()’ at /home/tlwu/git/onnxruntime/onnxruntime/test/ir/graph_test.cc:1214:16:
/usr/include/c++/13.2.0/bits/stl_uninitialized.h:1132:28: error: ‘void* __builtin_memmove(void*, const void*, long unsigned int)’ forming offset 8 is out of the bounds [0, 8] [-Werror=array-bounds=]
 1132 |           __builtin_memmove(__result, __first, __count * sizeof(_Tp));