perf(notebook): cut iframe message churn via cell diffing and stable callbacks

[Codex]

Cell execution still triggered iframe message storms because every cell re-rendered on minor changes and IsolatedFrame re-registered handlers on each render.

• Selective cell updates: replaceNotebookCells now retains object references for unchanged cells and emits change events only for modified ones, preventing useCell subscribers from re-rendering unnecessarily.
• Memoized cell views: CodeCell, MarkdownCell, and RawCell are wrapped in React.memo, blocking parent re-renders from propagating when props are stable.
• Stable callbacks: Output and markdown error handlers moved to module-level constants; CodeCell link handling uses useCallback, eliminating per-render closures.
• IsolatedFrame handler stability: Callback props stored in refs and read inside the message handler; effect deps shrink to value props only, so the iframe listener stays registered unless content/size inputs change.

Example: IsolatedFrame now keeps handler registrations stable while still honoring latest callbacks:

const onLinkClickRef = useRef(onLinkClick);
onLinkClickRef.current = onLinkClick;

useEffect(() => {
  const handleMessage = (event: MessageEvent) => {
    if (isIframeMessage(event.data)) {
      onLinkClickRef.current?.(event.data.payload.url, false);
    }
  };
  window.addEventListener("message", handleMessage);
  return () => window.removeEventListener("message", handleMessage);
}, [initialContent, minHeight, maxHeight, autoHeight]);

[rgbkrk]

You goofball. I asked for a review, not a new PR.

[rgbkrk]

Rebase against main @codex

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