Replace EndBug/add-and-commit github action with gh cli

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based on interest in limiting third party actions

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There's one remaining usage:

opentelemetry-java-instrumentation/.github/workflows/overhead-benchmark-daily.yml

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uses: EndBug/add-and-commit@a94899bca583c204427a224a7af87c02f9b325d5 # v9.1.4