Notify payload job explicitly when resolving (#15154)

[Ayushdubey86]

Hello @mattsse , do check out this pr , once free!

Description
This PR addresses issue #15154 by explicitly notifying the payload build job when it's resolving, preventing unnecessary racing against empty blocks.

Changes:
Introduced an atomic boolean flag (is_resolving) within BasicPayloadJob and BuildArguments to indicate resolution status.
Set this flag explicitly when the payload resolution begins in resolve_kind.
Updated payload transaction-building loop to regularly check the is_resolving flag and exit immediately when resolution starts.

Resolves #15154

[mattsse]

this a good start so far,

still a few more things to update, see failing ci, but this is going in the right direction

[codspeed-hq]

CodSpeed Performance Report

Merging #15170 will not alter performance

_{Comparing Ayushdubey86:Let-the-payloadjob-know-it-is-being-resolved-#15154 (5edf255) with main (5b06daa)}

Summary

✅ 77 untouched benchmarks

[Ayushdubey86]

Hey @mattsse @emhane , can we merge this pr? it has been open for some time now