[3.11] gh-99079: Update Windows build to use OpenSSL 3.0.9 (GH-106649)

[zware]

• Issue: Use OpenSSL 3.0.x in our binary builds #99079

[bedevere-bot]

🤖 New build scheduled with the buildbot fleet by @zware for commit 4a5e8d9 🤖

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[zware]

The buildbot failures don't appear related; going ahead with the merge.