gh-142145: Remove quadratic behavior in node ID cache clearing

[sethmlarson]

• Issue: Remove quadratic behavior in node ID cache clearing #142145

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🤖 New build scheduled with the buildbot fleet by @gpshead for commit d39b691 🤖

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[miss-islington-app]

Thanks @sethmlarson for the PR, and @gpshead for merging it 🌮🎉.. I'm working now to backport this PR to: 3.10, 3.11, 3.12, 3.13, 3.14.
🐍🍒⛏🤖 I'm not a witch! I'm not a witch!

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GH-142209 is a backport of this pull request to the 3.14 branch.

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GH-142210 is a backport of this pull request to the 3.13 branch.

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GH-142211 is a backport of this pull request to the 3.12 branch.

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GH-142212 is a backport of this pull request to the 3.11 branch.

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GH-142213 is a backport of this pull request to the 3.10 branch.

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⚠️⚠️⚠️ Buildbot failure ⚠️⚠️⚠️

Hi! The buildbot x86 Debian Installed with X 3.x (no tier) has failed when building commit 08d8e18.

What do you need to do:

1. Don't panic.
2. Check the buildbot page in the devguide if you don't know what the buildbots are or how they work.
3. Go to the page of the buildbot that failed (https://buildbot.python.org/#/builders/1244/builds/6835) and take a look at the build logs.
4. Check if the failure is related to this commit (08d8e18) or if it is a false positive.
5. If the failure is related to this commit, please, reflect that on the issue and make a new Pull Request with a fix.

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Summary of the results of the build (if available):

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Traceback (most recent call last):
  File �[35m"/buildbot/buildarea/3.x.ware-debian-x86.installed/build/target/lib/python3.15/test/test_annotationlib.py"�[0m, line �[35m160�[0m, in �[35mtest_nonexistent_attribute�[0m
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Traceback (most recent call last):
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⚠️⚠️⚠️ Buildbot failure ⚠️⚠️⚠️

Hi! The buildbot s390x Fedora Stable Refleaks 3.x (tier-3) has failed when building commit 08d8e18.

What do you need to do:

1. Don't panic.
2. Check the buildbot page in the devguide if you don't know what the buildbots are or how they work.
3. Go to the page of the buildbot that failed (https://buildbot.python.org/#/builders/1641/builds/1335) and take a look at the build logs.
4. Check if the failure is related to this commit (08d8e18) or if it is a false positive.
5. If the failure is related to this commit, please, reflect that on the issue and make a new Pull Request with a fix.

You can take a look at the buildbot page here:

https://buildbot.python.org/#/builders/1641/builds/1335

Failed tests:

• test_external_inspection
• test.test_os.test_os

Failed subtests:

• test_timerfd_poll - test.test_os.test_os.TimerfdTests.test_timerfd_poll
• test_only_active_thread - test.test_external_inspection.TestGetStackTrace.test_only_active_thread

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Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/home/buildbot/buildarea/3.x.cstratak-fedora-stable-s390x.refleak/build/Lib/test/test_external_inspection.py", line 1647, in test_only_active_thread
    self.assertEqual(
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~^
        total_gil_threads, 1, "Should have exactly one GIL holder"
        ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    )
    ^
AssertionError: 0 != 1 : Should have exactly one GIL holder


Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/home/buildbot/buildarea/3.x.cstratak-fedora-stable-s390x.refleak/build/Lib/test/test_os/test_os.py", line 4120, in test_timerfd_poll
    self.check_timerfd_poll(False)
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~^^^^^^^
  File "/home/buildbot/buildarea/3.x.cstratak-fedora-stable-s390x.refleak/build/Lib/test/test_os/test_os.py", line 4108, in check_timerfd_poll
    self.assertEqual(self.read_count_signaled(fd), 1)
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
AssertionError: 2 != 1