add nccl 129 support

[lanluo-nvidia]

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[narendasan]

LGTM

[apbose]

LGTM. Is this change added due to addition of cu129 in torch2.10 CI as was being discussed in the meeting yesterday? Also how do you know the specific version? You get it from the documentation somewhere?