Make rabbitmqctl delete_queue more robust (backport #9324)

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #9324 done by Mergify.
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Changes to be committed:
	modified:   deps/rabbit/test/crashing_queues_SUITE.erl
	modified:   deps/rabbit_common/src/rabbit_control_misc.erl

Unmerged paths:
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	both modified:   deps/rabbit/src/rabbit_amqqueue.erl

Cherry-pick of 5717bcd has failed:

On branch mergify/bp/v3.12.x/pr-9324
Your branch is ahead of 'origin/v3.12.x' by 6 commits.
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You are currently cherry-picking commit 5717bcd09d.
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Unmerged paths:
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	both modified:   deps/rabbit/src/rabbit_amqqueue.erl
	both modified:   deps/rabbit_common/src/rabbit_misc.erl

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