[feat] Improve state selection criteria in the --distribute and the --flex-alloc-nodes option

[vkarak]

The key problem with those options currently is that there is no way to select a node that is exclusively in the idle state. As a result, nodes in idle+drain etc. states will be selected and jobs will be blocked forever. This PR fixes this by introducing exclusive state selection. More specifically, the following changes are made:

1. The STATE argument implies exclusive state selection.
2. The old behaviour is preserved with STATE*, meaning that a node to be selected must be at least in state STATE.
3. The new special argument avail is added which will selected all the nodes available for running a job. For Slurm, these are nodes in IDLE, ALLOCATED or COMPLETING states.

Closes #2258.

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