fix: Change smd.gg links to jar.setup.md in server-software.mdx

[katiethings]

Description

This fixes the download buttons on https://www.setup.md/t/server-software. Currently, they don't go anywhere. Now they download the JAR files like they are supposed to using jar.setup.md.

Resolved issues

Fixes #168

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