Fix PyPI wheel uploads

[BrianJKoopman]

Description

This PR names the wheel artifact upload/download in the deploy workflow. This prevents all artifacts from being downloaded and a directory structure being created that prevents the pypa/gh-action-pypi-publish action from finding the wheels.

Motivation and Context

While @tristpinsm has been testing the new Rogue6 based pysmurf-controllers he's been tagging release candidates, which generate a build of the docker images and the wheels. The wheel builds fail to publish like in the run below:
https://github.com/simonsobs/socs/actions/runs/24865173924/job/72800578579

I realized that this was going to be true even for official releases.

How Has This Been Tested?

I ran workflow on push with just the build wheel and upload/download artifact bits: https://github.com/simonsobs/socs/actions/runs/24892528248/job/72888756641

Types of changes

• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to not work as expected)

Checklist:

• My code follows the code style of this project.
• My change requires a change to the documentation.
• I have updated the documentation accordingly.